Its all about YOU

Lately I have noticed people complaining about being single or being lonely. I want to give them some good advice. Don't depend on someone else for your happiness. Sure we all enjoy companionship and having someone there for you. However you must make yourself happy before you can make someone else happy.

Don't look for someone that completes you but someone who enhances the person you already are. Heck if you are that lonely get a pet. In reality someone who is happy is much more attractive. Think about it, would you rather hang out with Eeyore or Tigger (if you are familiar with Winnie the Pooh)? Personally I would not want to be around someone who is constantly negative all the time. Sure we all have our bad days but there is always a way to pull through them.

Find something that makes you happy and pursue it with full force. When you set your sights on your goals and dreams it gives you a sense of purpose and accomplishment. Find what makes you tick. It could be anything that makes you happy. Think about a career change, losing weight, eating right, playing a sport, picking up a hobby you have always wanted to do, dancing, moving to another home, redecorating, building your own business.. whatever works for you. Then stop making excuses and start making a plan!  When you find something you love, love will find you!

"Don't wait for someone to bring you flowers. Plant you own garden and decorate your soul....!"

- Unknown